[Week 2 Extra] How do we shape our behavior because of others?

 Our behavior is often changed by others. First, it changes by deliberately copying others. Second, when people are forced to change due to their gaze or surroundings. Third, there are changes that result from consideration for others. Most people, including myself, will experience the second most.

Considering how others think of me and how my actions will affect people, our behavior naturally changes. Of course, there are people who act unconsciously, but I think it's probably hard for most of them. It is not necessarily a bad phenomenon to change behavior to suit people's perspectives or moods, but I think it is necessary to be careful not to be swayed by others and lose your perspective.

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