Week 2 extra) How do we shape our behaviors because of others?

How do we shape our behaviors because of others?

When we are with others(especially those who are not so comfortable), we often make ourselves a little better. People all want to be able to look pretty normal and cool in front of others. In other words, it is highly likely that not only ourselves but also the other person we see is made up.

To tell you about my experience, I often make silly jokes, clap and laugh loudly because I want to make people around me feel comfortable. But I prepare myself to look more formal and professional when I stand in front of many people and speak. Also, when I'm with my friends, the way I treat them depends on my intimacy. I can talk and play freely with my closer friends, but when I'm with an awkward friend, I don't want to give him a light image, so I tend to listen rather than talk about myself.

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