Week 2-2(Fri) -2. How do we shape our behavior because of others?

How do we shape our behavior because of others?

I don't seem to change my behavior very well by others. I don't make my behavior, to seen well by someone.  I don't try to be nice and kind to a friend whom I met for the first time. Because they might be disappointed after I find out who I really am. I try to show myself as I am. (That doesn't mean I'm unkind, thoughtless.)

 This is me, but there are times when I'm changed by someone else. It's advice on my behavior given by close acquaintances.

 For example, the advice is given by a friend to me who finds it difficult to get along with same-sex friends;  "Don't scare from the start, let your friends come near to you", advice from my parents: "When you plan everything, make sure you have a second-best plan in case you fail."
When I take the advice that others give me, and when my behavior changes little by little, I feel growing up.

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